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रहने दो , मुझको मुझमे

रहने दो , मुझको मुझमे
दुसरो में , दूसरा होता हूँ

दुसरा आकर्षण , आकर्षित  करता है
दर्पण में ,खुद को नापता है

दुसरो में , मैं छिन भिन होता हूँ
खुद में , दुसरो को ढूंढ़ता हूँ

दुसरे शब्द , लुभाते हैं 
खुद को , छलते हैं  

मुझको मुझमे, रहने दे ऐ खुदा 
दुसरो में , तो गुलाम बन जाता हूँ

ना रख , गुलामो की महफ़िल में
या मुझको , मुकम्मल कर दे

रहने दो , मुझको मुझमे
दुसरो में , दूसरा होता हूँ
                                                  - विशाल  जैन 

रहने दो , मुझको मुझमे
दुसरो में , दूसरा होता हूँ

We are, most of the people, live life of others. How? We always idolize somebody and start following their path. Or we copy others style, way of talking, walking, feeling, behaving etc. Or keeping a face which is not our original one. Which is very different from the original when we born. When you born you do not idolize with anybody. You keep yourself original. But as you grow , the society, firstly parents, brothers or sisters creates an environment around you , which forces you intentionally or unintentionally to develop a new face for each and every relation. To mother it is different, to father it's a new one and with siblings quite different. This is how our conditioning happens and we live in this society through out our lives and lives and lives. But have you ever noticed that your inner self got frustrated by living in such society, where you have to keep borrowed faces and always hide your own original face provided by God. You feel disappointed at some point of your life, but you never come to know that this is because of your multiple life's living with in you.

So in the above verse,
I pray to God, please keep myself in me
I feel another person when I behave differently from my original one.

दुसरा आकर्षण , आकर्षित  करता है
दर्पण में ,खुद को नापता है

I feel attracted with the attraction of others. We all are attracted with the glamour of others life. Their money, lifestyle, body shapes, dressing sense, cars, clubs especially celebrities. Our mind got attracted with their status and constantly try to copy them. In mirror, we always try to replicate their's image in our self. We forget our own self and try our level best to keep our self similar to, as far as possible, to the person idolized by us.
You know that, the whole glamour industry runs because of our desire to copy and paste.

दुसरो में , मैं छिन भिन होता हूँ
खुद में , दुसरो को ढूंढ़ता हूँ

But by copying , I loose my self. I lost all my original self and started finding the other in our self. By copying others we repress our own being. We act as per the rules set by the society. We keep ourselves fake , fake faces, fake smiles, fake clothing, fake personalities. People have started buying fake products , just to move in that society which they can not afford to move, but try their best to be part of that. We have lost ourselves completely and guide our children to behave in the same fashion as we do.

दुसरे शब्द , लुभाते हैं 
खुद को , छलते हैं 

One of the greatest mind says, Words and faces are the most deceiving entities in the world. We feel mesmerized when we hear good adjectives about our self. However, they may be false but at that instant we feel elated. Or may be half truth, but these words keep ourselves happy for a longer period of time. Our mind captures those words as an antidote to sadness or any rejection. But those deceiving words creates a false impression about ourselves. We create a different persona and our mind try to start living this false life. We develops multiple images within our selves , each image belongs to a set of adjectives, given by certain set of people. We try to interact with such people again to get more such words and reactions. But eventually we started living false life. Just analyse, what would happen if that person start using bad adjectives about yourself? You feel deceived or you feel that person unfaithful.
It is difficult to check all facts about the words and faces, but we have to analyse as far as possible. Or you can say BE CONSCIOUS.

मुझको मुझमे, रहने दे ऐ खुदा 
दुसरो में , तो गुलाम बन जाता हूँ

I pray to God , please keep myself in me otherwise I feel slavery in following others.
By loosing our self we become slave of the person whom we try to follow. The other one become our master. Now if that master do anything , may be good or bad, we try to copy that deed without even putting our brains.
We Lost. Totally Lost.
Oh God. What a slavery...

ना रख , गुलामो की महफ़िल में
या मुझको , मुकम्मल कर दे

I pray to God, please do not keep me with these slaves or masters. When we go to any party, we try our best to copy a new style (borrowed from our master) and always keep other people in our mind. How they feel when we choose this clothing , shoes, make up etc.
The other one who is also attending the party thinks the same.
So eventually all the party members are slave and master of each other.
I pray to God, if you are keeping me with such people, obviously people don't have courage or facility  to leave their society, then please make me slave of myself. Make me a complete personality, not dependent on other. A COMPLETE HUMAN.

Whatever I do, satisfy me
Whatever I wear, beautify me
Whatever I think, justify me
Whatever I hear, soothes me
Where ever I move, enjoys me

रहने दो , मुझको मुझमे
दुसरो में , दूसरा होता हूँ


                                                                                   -- Vishal Jain

Comments

  1. Beautifully written,its so imp to be oneself,This poem has wonderfully explained to luv thyself no matter what.if one understands this most of the problems r gone.

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  2. Beautifully written,its so imp to be oneself,This poem has wonderfully explained to luv thyself no matter what.if one understands this most of the problems r gone.

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  3. A very relevant point in today's society. We are blindly copying someone who we think are more successful in some way. We are not letting our true being to grow. The society has turned in to a mad racecourse.
    I think that Corona outbreak is an opportunity for us to stop and introspect.
    Good work Vishal ! Keep it up.

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